𝟏𝟐 𝐑𝐮𝐥𝐞𝐬 𝐅𝐨𝐫 𝐋𝐢𝐟𝐞 timi cauk chungin cawn awk phun 10

𝐴𝑢𝑡ℎ𝑜𝑟: 𝐽𝑜𝑟𝑑𝑎𝑛 𝐵. 𝑃𝑒𝑡𝑒𝑟𝑠𝑜𝑛

𝗗𝗮𝗹 𝟭𝗻𝗮𝗸: 𝗡𝗮 𝗹𝗶𝗮𝗻𝗴𝗱𝗮𝗿 𝗸𝗵𝗮 𝗵𝗻𝘂𝗹𝗲𝗶 𝗮𝗵 𝗰𝗵𝗶𝗮 𝗹𝗮𝘄 𝗱𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘁𝗲𝗶𝗻 𝗱𝗶𝗿

• A derthawmmi bantukin na dir ahcun mi nehsawh na tong lai. ‘Ka si kho, ka tuah kho’ timi ‘mah le mah bochannak’ (self-confidence) ngei tein dir law, cu nih cun na thluak le na ruahnak an thlen lai.
• Dirhmun sang na hlawh deuh lai, nungak zong nih cu bantuk pa cu an duh deuh hna.

𝗗𝗮𝗹 𝟮𝗻𝗮𝗸: 𝗞𝗮 𝘁𝘂𝗮𝗵 𝗮𝘄𝗸 𝗿𝗶𝗮𝗻 𝗮𝘀𝗶, 𝘁𝗶 𝗿𝘂𝗮𝗵𝗻𝗮𝗸 𝗵𝗲 𝗻𝗮𝗻𝗴𝗺𝗮𝗵 𝗹𝗲 𝗻𝗮𝗻𝗴𝗺𝗮𝗵 𝗶𝘇𝗼𝗵𝗸𝗵𝗲𝗻𝗵

• Mizeimaw cu an uico paw khimnak hmanh ah ‘heh’ tiah rian an tuan. Asinain, anmah dawhnak ding le ngandamnak dingah an tuahmi um lo. Solfa cungah thadam ngai in an thu, ‘chip’ phunphun an ei.
• Na uico, na far, na nule pa, le na unau na zohkhenh hna bantukin nangmah le nangmah zong izohkhenh.
  
  

𝗗𝗮𝗹 𝟯𝗻𝗮𝗸: 𝗡𝗮𝗻𝗴𝗺𝗮𝗵 𝗰𝗮𝗮𝗵 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗹 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝗯𝗶𝗸 𝗮 𝗱𝘂𝗵𝘁𝘂 𝗵𝗻𝗮 𝗵𝗲 𝗵𝗮𝘄𝗶𝗸𝗼𝗺 𝗶𝘀𝗲𝗿 

• Hmailei caah ruahnak tha a ngeimi hna pawngkam ah riantuan le khuasak khawh izuam. Mi tampi cu teinak le hlawhtlinnak na hmuh hlan tiang cu hawi tha ngai an ilawhter lai nain hlawhtlinnak na hmuh taktak tikah an ngaihchia lai. Cu bantuk minung cu hrial hna.

𝗗𝗮𝗹 𝟰𝗻𝗮𝗸: 𝗠𝗶𝗱𝗮𝗻𝗴 𝗵𝗲 𝗶𝘁𝗮𝗵𝗰𝗵𝘂𝗻𝗵 𝗵𝗹𝗮𝗵, 𝗻𝗶𝘇𝗮𝗮𝗻 𝗶 𝗻𝗮𝗻𝗴𝗺𝗮𝗵 𝗵𝗲 𝘁𝘂 𝗸𝗵𝗮𝗻 𝗶𝘁𝗮𝗵𝗰𝗵𝘂𝗻𝗵

• Ahohmanh nih kanmah le kan tuanbia kan tial cio. Cheu khat cu dal 20nak an phan, cheu khat cu dal 3nak lawng an phan ve. Nangmah lam te zoh law, kal ko. Nangmah tuanbia te kha ruat law, ralring tein tial izuam ko.

𝗗𝗮𝗹 𝟱𝗻𝗮𝗸: 𝗡𝗮 𝗱𝘂𝗵𝗽𝗶𝗮𝗸 𝗹𝗼𝗺𝗶 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗹 𝗸𝗵𝗮 𝗻𝗮 𝗳𝗮𝗹𝗲 𝘁𝘂𝗮𝗵𝘁𝗲𝗿 𝗵𝗻𝗮 𝗵𝗹𝗮𝗵

• Na fa kha a hmet lio (ngakchiat) lioah hawikom ah iser lem hlah. Upatnak an pek dingmi a thlau lai. An zawnruat hna law, chimhrin fawn hna.

𝗗𝗮𝗹 𝟲𝗻𝗮𝗸: 𝗩𝗮𝘄𝗹𝗲𝗶𝗽𝗶 𝗻𝗮 𝘀𝗼𝗶 𝗵𝗹𝗮𝗻 𝗮𝗵 𝗻𝗮 𝗶𝗻𝗻 𝗸𝗵𝗮 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗮𝗻𝗴 𝘁𝗲𝗶𝗻 𝗰𝗵𝗶𝗮𝗵 𝗵𝗺𝗮𝘀𝗮 𝗶𝘇𝘂𝗮𝗺

• Mi tampi nih vawlei thlen an duh, an izuam. Asinain, an thilsuknak ‘pokhlot’ hmanh, tha tein an chia kho lo. Kanmah thlen hmasa loin tamfun (society) kan soi lengmang mi hi caan paam men asi.
• Vawleipi thlennak dingah kan dihlak in kan biapi, kanmah pumpaak sin in aa thok hmasa hau.

𝗗𝗮𝗹 𝟳𝗻𝗮𝗸: 𝗦𝘂𝗹𝗹𝗮𝗺 𝗻𝗴𝗲𝗶𝗺𝗶 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗹 𝗸𝗵𝗮 𝗱𝗮𝘄𝗶 𝗶𝘇𝘂𝗮𝗺 (𝗮 𝗻𝘂𝗮𝗺𝗺𝗶 𝗹𝗲 𝗳𝗮𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗲 𝗵𝗺𝘂𝗵 𝗸𝗵𝗮𝘄𝗵𝗺𝗶 𝘀𝗶𝗹𝗼𝗶𝗻)

• A caan ahcun nun hi a har caah mi tampi nih rianrang tein hmuh khawhmi nuamhnak an dawi.

• - Porn
• - Rithaisii (drugs)
• - Fir
• - Hlennak

• Nunnak nih a chuahpi mi harnak chungin luatnak le hlawhtlinnak hmuh na duh ahcun a liannganmi ruahnak chunmang na ngeih a herh. Cu na chunmang lei ah cun duhsah tein kal izuam – rianrang tein hmuhmi siloin.

𝗗𝗮𝗹 𝟴𝗻𝗮𝗸: 𝗕𝗶𝗮𝘁𝗮𝗸 𝗻𝗮 𝗰𝗵𝗶𝗺 𝗹𝗼 𝗵𝗺𝗮𝗻𝗵 𝗮𝗵 𝗹𝗶𝗵 𝗰𝗵𝗶𝗺 𝗹𝗼 𝘁𝗲𝗹 𝗰𝘂 𝗶𝘇𝘂𝗮𝗺

• Lih na chim fatinte lih dangin khuh peng a herh.
• Chikhat hrang koko ah cun biatak nakin lih chim hi a fawi deuh. Hmailei caan saupi hrangah cun biatak chim hi aphu deuh suamau.

𝗗𝗮𝗹 𝟵𝗻𝗮𝗸: 𝗕𝗶𝗮𝗰𝗵𝗶𝗺𝘁𝘂 𝗻𝗶𝗵 𝗵𝗶𝗻 𝗸𝗮 𝗵𝗻𝗴𝗮𝗹𝗵 𝗯𝗮𝗹 𝗹𝗼𝗺𝗶 𝗮 𝗵𝗻𝗴𝗮𝗹𝗵𝗺𝗶 𝗮 𝘂𝗺, 𝘁𝗶 𝗿𝘂𝗮𝘁 𝗶𝗻 𝗮 𝗯𝗶𝗮 𝗻𝗴𝗮𝗶.

• Mi pakhat khat he biaruahnak na ngeih tikah nangmah chim lawnglawng duh hlah. ‘Zeitikdah ka chim caan panh lai,’ ti lawng bawh hlah. A bia tha tein ngai hmasa.
• A sin in zeimaw naa lak khawh.

𝗗𝗮𝗹 𝟭𝟬𝗻𝗮𝗸: 𝗕𝗶𝗮 𝗻𝗮 𝗰𝗵𝗶𝗺 𝘁𝗶𝗸𝗮𝗵 𝗮 𝗵𝗲𝗿𝗵𝗺𝗶 𝘇𝗮𝘄𝗻𝘁𝗲 𝗸𝗵𝗮 𝘁𝗮𝘄𝗶𝗳𝗶𝗮𝗻𝗴 𝘁𝗲𝗶𝗻 𝗰𝗵𝗶𝗺 𝗸𝗵𝗮𝘄𝗵 𝗶𝘇𝘂𝗮𝗺

• Hlingbur kam lawng, tu lengmang hlah (Don’t beat around the bush).
• Bia na chim tikah naa tinhmi biatlang kawmnak kha fiang tein hngal law, isehchih.
• Tawifiang tein chim izuam.
• Na chim hlan ah tha tein naa ruah cia ahcun bia ngaitu nih na chim duhmi an fiang deuh lai.

(𝐶𝑎𝑡𝑖𝑎𝑙𝑡𝑢 𝐽𝑜𝑟𝑑𝑎𝑛 𝐵. 𝑃𝑒𝑡𝑒𝑟𝑠𝑜𝑛 ℎ𝑖 𝑎 𝑡𝑖𝑎𝑙𝑚𝑖 𝑎𝑡ℎ𝑎 𝑙𝑎𝑤𝑛𝑔 𝑠𝑖𝑙𝑜𝑖𝑛 𝑎 𝑏𝑖𝑎𝑐ℎ𝑖𝑚 𝑛𝑔𝑎𝑖ℎ 𝑧𝑜𝑛𝑔 𝑎 𝑛𝑢𝑎𝑚. 𝐵𝑖𝑎 𝑣𝑒𝑙ℎ𝑢𝑖 𝑙𝑜ℎ, 𝑓𝑖𝑎𝑛𝑔 𝑝𝑜𝑝 𝑖𝑛 𝑏𝑖𝑎 𝑎 𝑐ℎ𝑖𝑚. 𝐴 𝑑𝑢ℎ𝑛𝑎𝑘 𝑙𝑒 𝑑𝑢ℎ 𝑙𝑜𝑛𝑎𝑘 𝑎 𝑙𝑎𝑛𝑔ℎ𝑡𝑒𝑟 𝑝𝑖𝑛𝑎ℎ 𝑏𝑖𝑎-𝑒𝑙 𝑑𝑎𝑛 𝑎 𝑡ℎ𝑖𝑎𝑚. 𝐾𝑒𝑖𝑚𝑎ℎ 𝑝𝑢𝑚𝑝𝑎𝑘 𝑛𝑖ℎ 𝑘𝑎𝑛 𝑢𝑎𝑟 𝑛𝑔𝑎𝑖𝑚𝑖 𝑎𝑠𝑖 - 𝐺𝑒𝑛𝑑𝑒𝑟 𝑒𝑞𝑢𝑎𝑙𝑖𝑡𝑦, 𝐿𝐺𝑇𝐵,... 𝑘𝑜𝑛𝑔 𝑎 𝑐ℎ𝑖𝑚𝑚𝑖 𝑝𝑎𝑤𝑙 𝑐𝑢 𝑛𝑔𝑎𝑖ℎ 𝑎𝑛 𝑝ℎ𝑢 𝑡𝑎𝑡𝑎𝑘).

Siaherhnak he,
Henry Nawl Thang Bik